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Like the sky and the sea we both are different, irrespective of that we admire each other, love each other but, we are not meant for each other. I am not what you expected me to be. You are not what I expected you to be. So, please don’t mould me the way you like me and don't let me mould you the way I like you. Let us accept each other, just like the way we accepted ourselves. Sadly, that wasn’t possible....
It is better to remember a person as bittersweet memory by letting them go than poisoning the relationship by making them stay as harsh reality you cannot accept. Let us not seize the freedom to be ourselves by compromising to be in the relationship that makes neither of us happy. One cannot ask a swimming fish to fly nor a flying bird to swim. So, Let us part our ways. Let the distance between us be like the horizon, the only bond that ties us together. Let us love each other in thoughts and marry each other in dreams.
A relationship is fruitful when there is balance between compromise and acceptance.
P.s. Thoughts derived from fiction not through experience.
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Dont know why I find it tough in reality !
Bitter but true... Relationships are as always sometimes tough to understand...!! Stay blessed..!!!
Marry in Dreams ....love eachother in thoughts ..?
if love is then the flying bird and the swimming fish will meet right on the confluence of water and air and continue their saga of love .....
After all, practically speaking,no matter what we say....about how much we live life on our terms and love doing so .. at the end we all make adjustments and we all compromise ... with people .. if not people ... with the surroundings ... and surely with the fact that we all have to die ..
Who wants to ?? But you adjust dont u ??Relationships grow only when we just think about the ones we love ...without expectations ... and then we get to see the obvious response and changes ... :) Just shared my thoughts on the matter we call BREAK UP
@Mysay
I totally agree to what you've said. Adjustments are a part of any relationship. But, at the end of the day, those adjustments should bring happiness to the relationship.
If a fish compromises and tries to fly to make the bird happy it dies every second for not being itself. The same thing applies to the bird also. The bird can't compromise to swim. Its true nature is to fly....
Loving and accepting the other person without any expectations is ideal solution but it isn't that easy to implement in reality. But, one can surely make the expectations lesser.
Relationships are fruitful when there is a balance between compromising and accepting.
If they compromise all their life, They may live together in relationship but die every second for not being themselves. Then, what is the purpose of such kind of unhealthy relationship??
My post may not be applicable to every kind of relationship...May be to a very complex type of relationship involving two very different people.
P.s. I love your comments for they make me explore more on the subject :)
nice post
Good composition Valli.
This is very resonating Valli. :)
And those who have loved like this will know how it feels to "meet at the horizon". :)
Excellent one Sri..I can very well relate to what you had written.Sometimes letting go is the best way to make something or someone stay on...Keep writing. Stay blessed!
Complex relationship,expressed gently.
That's a reasonable breakup!.....but why get into a relationship when you know she's not perfect for you!!!..
in such a case go for the bright side..
now u r available, may be for something outstanding
bitter truth. lets be ourselves instead of pretending to be someone in a relationship or simply anywhere else.. nice write up, valli.
lovely thought
That last 2 lines speaks a lot and carries a deep meaning...
How true... We always want others to change though we very well know tat we dont like changing ourselves!!1
You said it so effortlessly and beautifully. Lets just be what we are...
Very nice concept , written beautifully the image is also perfectly matched :)
wonderfully put in... short and very crispy.
Good one :)
I like how in the end you have put that the thoughts are inspired by fiction. I wish Sri, people realized things at the right time and parted on a good note.
Last lines are cool....! a nice one valli...
Nice one. If some relationships are to stay, they can stay in any occasions. If its not meant to be, then it can never be.
Fiction or not, it sure resonates with me.
nice one
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oh that well written.. harsh but truth .. first time here but loved your blog .. especially the theme and art and most importantly content :) ..
From reality to fantasy as my mind swings...
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Hey Valli! You write so well, and I especially liked this poem. Really touches the chord. Anyway Nice blog you have, if you get the time do drop by mine too.. - www.spotlightxoxo.wordpress.com ! Cheers & keep writing. :)
Beautiful!!!! MARRY ME...
lovely :)
better-sweet words to put the bittersweet breakup in picture...
such an amazing thot process u have!
It's beautiful. Am glad you're expressing it so well. Unfortunately a lot of men think this way about a woman. Glad to see a woman put it across so well... Keep up the good work :)
Cheers!
j.
Nicely expressed
A very touching one...
nicely write and expressed!
i love this post for some reason! Thanks! :)
Loved it :)
Heart touching!
Very difficult in reality. . .
This is brilliant! Loved it, your writing touched a chord.
Nice Read :) And I find your P.S. umm..interesting! ;)
Nice post.. you are my type of writer.. i too put disclaimers in my personal posts :)
Well Said !
..let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of heaven dance between them..
..we shall stand together..yet not too near together..for the pillars of the temple stand apart..
..these were the prophetic words of the famous poet Gibran..and telling you Valli..you write like Gibran..
..you are one among my favorite poetess..and i adore your writings..please keep writing.. :) ;)
"We aren't meant for each other"
I seriously hate this sentence... :-/
Seriously I loved this post. Right now I saw a movie Mr . perfect which is based on same theme I loved this.
very well written..felt some melancholy in it.
keep blogging..:)
wishing you a Merry x'mas n a happy new yr ..
Lved it..!! Hey ..y dont you Attempt to Write a short Story?
Nice post!! Keep writing!!
Good post and I truely belive in what you say !
Nice post, very true about relationships. Do read my blog too http://growlingcatbites.blogspot.nl/
Awesome read..well composed!..really enjoyed it!
Sweet fact of relationship...nicely written
Sweet fact of relationship...nicely written
Nice one dear..
:) that's a holy truth!
So true ...
So true
So true....
Really relationship is very valuable thing and we just need to understand it properly.
Well written valli!!!
The situation might as well be reality for many of us.
Precisely written. Good job.
You've a cute blog